It was fun hanging out with my lovely narcissus, but it left me wondering if i'm really falling in love or is it just lust love..? I really do like her and i think that things are going great for us, but i'm afraid so very afraid, cause i don't want to make that mistake of lust love.... She would probably think that a man who can fall in love so fast would probably just fall out of love just as quickly. So i guess only time will tell my dear....
Cause i guess men will always be slaves to lust, why is that so i do not know. Thou i may be a man, what is that actually drives the masculine mind. Why is that men are such weaklings when it comes to sex?Why can't we control ourselves, is it because God created us with such a flaw, and upon realising it created women without this cataclysmic blemish that would forever haunt men. A womens physical appearance seems to be like a drug, an irresistable one that drives men crazy. The sexual arena is one that the men can never win, cause women will always be in control of it. They dangle the sex carrot on a stick in front of them , knowing that they can pretty much get a man to do anything they want them to...
You may think you've got self control but tell me when an attractive woman takes her top off don't you turn all gibberish? Its just insane... For instance women taking off her top would probably leave men foaming at the mouth, for example a female stripper. But flip that thought the other way around if that were a male stripper would women get turned on? Its highly doubtful, probably they would just find it amusing and start laughing away, or probably be traumatized that the help from a psychiatrist would be sought, the trauma from which she 'd probably never recover from.
So now is it lust that is waging a war with me, i have the utmost respect for women. But yet being a man i must say that i am Flawed just like any other. Probably the women would never understand why the men go ga ga over them, but they so very much love the fact that the key to manipulating them is within their grasps...
Saturday, February 18, 2006
Love or just a slave to Lust?
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I think part of the problem is the sex soaked society we live in. I struggle with what you're talking about. It is bloody difficult.
Focusing the mind on other things is one way to cope with it. There's a time and place for sexual attraction but with guys it is the way we are wired. We are turned on visually.
At the end of the day it's whether you surrender to the lust or if you choose to fight it that determines who the real men are.
Yeah dude, i guess so but its hard not to succumb to such things. Well its a tough fight dude. haha. Fight the good fight :]
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